The New York Times published an article in late March that detailed how American women are fleeing the U.S. in search of love abroad.
The dating scene in America is too toxic for many American women, apparently, so they’re leaving the good old U.S.A. to find themselves a European fella. As a European living in America with an American man, I have news for these poor women: you’re probably going to end up being used, your chances of marriage are low (unless you promise some scumbag a Green Card) and you should probably get an STD check ASAP.
The NYT’s article reads like a romance novel to anyone not in-the-know. The theory posed throughout is that American women have had disappointing dating experiences in the U.S., mostly because American men don’t worship the ground they walk on when they first meet.
But reading the piece made me die of cringe due to the sheer ignorance of these women. In one example, this poor girl was told by one foreign guy that he “ran through traffic just to look into your eyes once, and if you don’t want to go on a date with me, I can die happy knowing that I just met you.” I absolutely screamed laughing reading this, because basically every mildly attractive woman in Europe has heard it ten times.
Men should be “strong enough to kill, and gentle enough to hold a sleeping baby”
https://t.co/LESNHINIAI— Daily Caller (@DailyCaller) October 18, 2022
It’s one of the lamest pick-up lines ever. If you fall for it, you’re at high risk for chlamydia. This poor girl clearly just got played by a European fuckboy.
What’s worse is that at least one of these women actually believed men who apparently “made it clear that they wanted to spend time with her.” Like, nah babe. They want to see you naked. They’re just more blunt about it in Europe because we love nudity, and Americans still aren’t so cool with it.
The same girl then went on to say, “I was just open and interested in meeting different people and having cultural exchanges.” So, you leave America because the men here don’t behave how you want (racist). And then go to Europe to slut it up? Weird.
While I do agree that there are many toxic trends in the American dating scene, most of them are perpetuated by women’s unrealistic expectations. Thanks to the domestic terror movement commonly called “feminism,” many American men have gotten sick of masculinized women (particularly in cities).
Outside of cities, my personal experience is that American men want strong, feminine women who don’t lump their baggage onto every guy they go out with. Or, as renowned women respecter Dylan Housman of the Daily Caller said, “Maybe American women should be less of a disaster if they want better luck dating American men.”
Well said, Dylan.
So let’s be honest ladies, if you’re not doing well dating in America, you should probably stop pointing fingers and look at the three pointing back at you. In all fairness, the NYT did lightly touch upon this same point, but not enough in my opinion.
Overall, the difference between European and American dating culture is negligible. (RELATED: Dear Kay: I’m A Liberal Woman Who Is Deeply Attracted To Conservative Men. Why?)
The only difference is that most European men are significantly more casual with sex and dating and are largely against marriage because of the prevalent secular culture. Unless you’re older, don’t want kids or have older kids, your chances of finding forever love in Europe are exactly the same as in the U.S., so shut up and get to the clap clinic, ladies.