Social media influencer Andrew Tate went viral Tuesday for posting a glorified job application for prospective girlfriends and it is one of the weirdest things ever.
Tate — and, from what I’ve learned, many other “men” — really wants to date absolutely useless bimbo women. According to his now-viral tweet, Tate won’t date a woman who has a job. All he wants is a chick who he will shower with his “riches.”
I’ll concede that once a woman is married, has children, maybe some savings or inheritance of her own, working a traditional job should definitely become the last thing any woman should do. Why take on the role of mother, housekeeper, organizer, and the overall chief operating officer of a family … and take on a normal job? (RELATED: Dear Kay: What Happened To Real Men? Are There Any Left?)
But having spent plenty of time around beautiful young women who don’t work … I gotta say, there isn’t a worse, more narcissistic, useless, crybaby, literally not-even-worth-eating-in-the-apocalypse demographic of humans (save for some criminals). A woman who doesn’t work prior to marriage, in any way, has no idea how to be a wife. Nor does she have any idea how to be a mother.
She’ll eat your soul, judge you, hate you if you fail and upgrade you the second your money become worthless to her. Yet, this is exactly what Tate is looking for and it’s really quite sad for him. You’d think a man with confidence and security would want a woman who can handle her stuff. Not one who only cares about him for the things he buys her.
Any woman I date does not have a job.
Why would I be working so hard to have hundreds of millions for my woman to waste her life enslaved for pennies?
No.
I will give you a life you could never ever afford, ever.
Private jets.
5 star hotels.
New cars.
Endless spending money…— Andrew Tate (@Cobratate) November 14, 2023
A guest essay in the New York Times noted how recent research suggests “that by the time men begin dating, they are relatively ‘limited in their ability and willingness to be fully emotionally present and available.'”
But women are just as focused on the educational attainment and employment status of men. And many have “given up” on love, which is also not the answer. (RELATED: Dear Kay: My Daughter Is A Single 35-Year-Old Career-Driven Liberal. Did I Ruin Her Life With My 80s Feminism?)
Amazingly, the superficial factors like money, schooling, bits of plastic crap from China we all buy, none of these things has any influence over love. Love is an emotion. Not something you can buy, invent or force. And if your love is influenced by the superficial, you might not actually know what love is.
Marry your best friend. Marry the person who you want to share all of life’s experiences with. Marry the person you know won’t judge you for superficial things like styles, aesthetics, taste in bits of pointless plastic or jewelry.